Did You Know?

Martha Blechar Gibbons, PhD, APRN, BC

Martha Gibbons

There are musicians in our midst! I have known Ruth Simon for years, but recently discovered something that I did not know. Last month in the Child, Adolescent and Family Therapy study group I learned that she plays the flute! Since my purpose in writing this column is to share what we do with our lives besides engaging in the professions we have chosen, I became more attuned, and asked Ruth to elaborate.

“I have played the flute for close to 60 years through school, college, and after. I’ve enjoyed small groups of duets, trios and quartets with friends. When I developed a vision problem I thought my fluting days were over but the director of music at our temple re-wrote some of the music and printed it with large notes on big pieces of paper. It was so uplifting for me to be able to continue this outlet. I now play about twice a month for services at our temple and for the High Holidays. I accompany the choir and sometimes have small solos. I often grumble about practicing and worry about how I will sound on a certain day. But, when I’m playing and it is meshing with the choir, I am filled with a sense of peace and contentment. “

Ruth told me about other members that I know who are musicians, and my curiosity intensified. I wondered, are there even more? I decided to send a message to the membership asking for musicians to make themselves known!

Among those who responded was Maggie Baker, a member who resides in Wynnewood, Pennsylvania. She shared, “I sing in my church choir at the Church of the Redeemer, in a smaller group called The Healing Presence Singers, and in an a capella group called Cantores. I also play the cello but have been so busy singing that it has become less of a priority.”

I have known that music is very significant to Melinda Salzman, and she confirmed this when she responded to my query. “Singing entered my life some years ago, as my children were launching into college. Thinking we might enjoy it as a shared activity, my husband and I joined our synagogue’s choir, which sings during the High Holidays. Neither of us had a trained voice, but we each had a music background, mine in piano and cello. St. Augustine said, “He who sings prays twice,” and he was right. Singing has proven to be a deeply spiritual way to observe these holidays. Plus, it’s fun–we enjoy the rehearsals and the sense of “belonging.” Since then we’ve sung with other groups, including the Takoma Park Singers. Now I’m singing challenging repertory with the Capitol Hill Chorale, including pieces in German, Latin (who knew?) and “church Russian.” Perhaps you’ll come to hear our December concert!”

Monica Callahan encourages others to experience what she has found. “Singing every week with the Georgetown Chorale is the best way I know to “change the channel,” relieve the stress of this work, and share harmonious (and not so harmonious) sound moments with a group of people. And it helps to have a fabulous conductor, Richard Giarusso–a singer, a scholar, and a genuinely nice guy who, in a group of 85, knows everybody’s name! FYI, our next concert is December 10 at 3, featuring classical and more popular holiday music. Come join us!”

Also a member of the Georgetown Chorale, Margo Silberstein comments on what she gains from her involvement, and offers more information about the group. “One of the wonderful things about singing is that it engages the right brain and the whole body in such a way that my left brain troubles, self-judgments and criticisms are forgotten in a flash. Singing stimulates oxytocin. And harmonizing with others and singing Bach and Handel can’t be beat.”

Here is the information for the Winter concert for 2016:

Winter Concert: The Season of Light
Saturday, December 10, 2016
3 p.m.
First Congregational United Church of Christ
945 G Street, NW
Washington, DC

Tickets available now!

The winter program this year promises to be one of the most unique concerts of the holiday season. In the first half of the program, we will perform excerpts from Bach’s Christmas Oratorio alongside portions of Handel’s Judas Maccabaeus. Handel’s oratorio tells the story of Hanukkah, and the interweaving of movements from these two masterworks offers a fascinating juxtaposition of the characteristic styles of the two greatest masters of the high Baroque. At the same time, the texts speak to the imagery of light, joy, and peace common to both Hanukkah and Christmas. The second half of the program features American composer Daniel Pinkham’s festive Christmas Cantata, in the arrangement for brass quartet and organ.

Those who know Tybe Diamond acknowledge her enthusiasm for…just about everything! It did not surprise me to find her spirited message in my e-mail. “I studied piano for 10 years, classical, popular, jazz with difficulty. I sing my heart out to Yiddish songs while playing piano and with popular music and show tunes.”

Dane Frost, currently an MIT in the Psychoanalytic Training Program, responded saying, “I am a guitarist and singer, having played since I was young.”

When I visited Jonathan Lebolt in his office in Silver Spring on a snowy day last winter, I noted that there was a keyboard in a corner, yet our animated discussion did not include an explanation for this addition. Recently he informed me, “I am a pianist and singer. I played piano at the Martha Graham School of Contemporary Dance and The Monster piano bar and sang in the choir at Metropolitan Community Church in New York. In Richmond, I played at Art6 gallery, Metropolitan Community Church (where I sang in the choir) and Congregation Or Ami. I also sang in musicals at the Jewish Community Center. Currently, I sing with Shir Shalom at Temple Shalom in Chevy Chase. I also enjoy playing piano for myself, my husband Robin, and our dog Cocoa in our home in Greenbelt.”

Not only does he sing and play guitar and piano, but Michael Williams has composed over 50 songs. “I’ve written songs about different aspects of life, children’s songs, and some social work songs.” Michael shared a piece he wrote and recorded years ago, and I feel very fortunate to have been able to witness his talent!

You may recall that a few years ago I interviewed David Wyner for this column, and at that time he shared that for him, music fulfills a “very deep love and need.” His recent response to my message seeking musicians was, “Yes, I admit it. I was trained as a musician in a previous life and still play the piano (classical) regularly.”

John Paddock reveals, “Years ago, I played boogie piano and rhythm guitar in a band, Cirrhosis Gross and the Schizophonics. My chief love: attempting to imitate Commander Cody on the keys and Keef (Keith Richards) on guitar. And, when it came time to imitate Peter (“Blow Your Face Out”) Wolf of the J. Geils Band, I shouted out the most raucous of the blues songs: I know, it’s only rock ’n roll, but I like it, like it, yes I do.”

I was delighted to receive a response from Tom Holman, who shared something that I definitely did not know about him. “I play the saxophone, mostly classical, but also some jazz.”

Finally, I will share that years ago, accompanied by my beloved friend Diana, I played guitar and sang at St. Dunstan’s Episcopal Church. When Diana died, the weight of my grief seemed to stifle my voice and my instrument. I am gradually reclaiming both.

ICP+P’s Annual Pot Luck and Fall Kick-Off September 11, 2016

Sunday, September 11, 2016 11:00 AM to 2:00 PM 
Chevy Chase Village Hall
5906 Connecticut Avenue, Chevy Chase, MD 20815
(a couple of blocks north of Chevy Chase Circle)

Please park on the street.

This kick-off event gives us a chance to come together as a community to renew ongoing relationships as well as to welcome new members. Members-in-Training and individuals who have joined ICP+P during the last year will be introduced. In addition, we are planning to have a town hall meeting, in which members can participate in open discussion about ICP+P, including the year’s upcoming programs, planning for future programs and other areas of interest or concern to the ICP+P community. The potluck has always been an informal, lively, and fun event with lots of great food!

If you are a new member or have never attended a potluck before, please let us know if you would like to be met and greeted by a member at the door when you arrive. They will introduce you to other members and help you get to know the community.

Please RSVP to this event by emailing (no phone calls, please) Kathy Beck at kathy.beck@rcn.com indicating what you plan to bring:

*appetizer        *side dish        *fruit salad        *green salad        *entrée        
*dessert        *alcoholic beverage      *non-alcoholic beverage        
*notify me and I’ll bring whatever is most needed
* Also please indicate whether you are available to help 
with set-up or clean-up.
*Please let us know if you would like a “meet and greet” 
welcome when you arrive.

Thank you! We look forward to seeing you there!

Scientific Day 2017 Submissions Due June 30th

Scientific Day is our biannual celebration of the scholarship and creativity within our membership. It is an opportunity to learn from each other, both from the talks presented and from the discussions they stimulate among our audience members.
The next ICP+P Scientific Day will be held on Saturday, January 28, 2017. Members are invited to submit an original paper/video on a theoretical, clinical, or practice topic. Alternatively, a presentation could be based on an artistic endeavor such as creative writing, music, studio art, or film, but they are always expected to have contemporary psychoanalytic thought as their focus. Footnotes are not required.

Presentations should be 30-35 minutes long and demonstrate depth of thought; the topic, theoretical perspective, and format are determined by the individual presenter. We are planning to have no more than 3 presenters, so each one will have will have an hour for their talk and discussion with the audience.

The deadline for submissions is June 30. Members are invited to email one or more papers/videos for consideration to Janet Dante at janet.dante@yahoo.com.

Janet is also looking for a co-chair for this event. Contact her directly at janet.dante@yahoo.com, if interested.